Free-spirited

All my life I have never been able to really freely express myself.  The ability to really be free was a great challenge.  At home I really wasn’t allowed to express myself freely.   I barely had a voice.

freedomBut now when I look at my daughter and see how free-spirited she is, I wish I had been able to express myself so freely.  She is so free, that she would dress up just because she felt like it.  The full works of make-up, clothes, shoes, accent, everything.  She is creative, happy and full of life.  When I look at her, I see life itself.  I mean, no care in the world.  Not studying what others think of her.  Saying what she wants without being too rude.  Just simply expressing herself.  I don’t stop her or forbid her from expressing myself, because I know what it feels like to be prohibited.  I just enjoy her freedom.

If she feels like dancing in the streets, she will dance in the street.  If she feels like singing  whilst doing her school work, then sing she would.  If she felt like painting a picture, she would.  I mean she is just free.  So many of us are so uptight.  Always worrying about things and not being able to see the funny side of something.

Life is meant to be lived!  So live!  Be free to express yourself in anyway you wish.

Your success depends on YOU!

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Take note

It is always a good idea to take note of anything that you deem important. Now when I say take note, I literary mean ‘take note’. You may wonder why I say ‘take note’, but when you take note you preserve your memory for another time. You will always have the memory there in that book on that page to look back at and remind yourself.

Many times great ideas are formed and because you didn’t take note, you forget and it passes you by. Or you may remember the idea, but you cannot remember every single detail in carrying out the idea. This may cause you to miss out on great opportunities. So it is very important to take note of things.

Recently I watched a very renowned speaker talking in a seminar and while speaking he said something and because it was something new and something he liked, he stopped his presentation to take note so that he will have it for another time and quoted exactly how he initially said it.

Taking note also helps you organize your thoughts properly and clears your mind of everything that is going on inside of it. Have you ever been so tired and just wanted to sleep but your mind just kept on working, not allowing you to sleep. Well, taking note can actually help you get those things on your mind, off your mind and on a page in the book.

So I encourage you to ‘take note’. You never know what cure, or genius idea you thought of that you can always remember until you just ‘take note’.

Achieving your goal.

When you know what you want to accomplish you must put some work into it.   You can’t just want to accomplish something and not put work into it.  For every goal you want to accomplish you must decide to act upon it.

Acting upon this goal you must state a date to accomplish this goal and how you are going to accomplish this goal.   If you don’t then you will find yourself not ever being able to accomplish this goal or if you do accomplish it,  it will take longer than anticipated and your motivation may no longer be the driving force.

And when you aren’t motivated,  then the goal becomes harder and seems unattainable.   So ensure that whenever you set a goal you identify how you are going to accomplish it and when you are going to complete it.

Stepping Out.

Sometimes it’s really fearful coming out of your comfort zone.  Stepping out into something new when you don’t know what the outcome will be or how things will work out, it really is hard to do such.  But when you know that this is what you have to do, all you need to do is just Do It!

Yes it may be difficult but you will never know what the outcome will be unless you just Step Out!  If you never step out you will never know.   The best thing that could ever happen is that you get what you never had.  The worst thing that could happen is that you still don’t get what you never had.  But you will never know if you never step out.

So step out if Faith, knowing that your best days are ahead of you.  Knowing that you can accomplish anything you put your hands too.  Knowing that this is what you have to do at this point in your life.

Don’t live in regret.  Step Out in Faith!

Your Dreams

Your dreams are yours, not someone elses, so don’t expect others to feel the same way about your dream that you feel.  Only you will really have the passion and the desire to fullfill your dreams.  Others may like your dream or not like your dream.  They may think your dream is just ‘nice’ or a ‘good thing’, but don’t let that deter you from living your dream.

You know what you want to accomplish in life.  You know what you would like to become.  You know what you like.  So do all that you have to do, to live your dream.  I know that we all want the support of those in our circle but sometimes that may not happen.  So if it doesn’t happen, then you need to find a motivating factor to accomplish your dream.

This motivating factor could be the need to change your finances, or to change your status or to make a difference in society.  Whatever it is that gave you the desire, let that be your motivating factor.

Don’t give up on your dreams because of others.  Live your dreams, it’s YOURS.

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